Thursday, November 22, 2012

Ajmal Amir Kasab begs forgiveness

Ajmal Amir Kasab will always be hated for he was the cause of death of around 166 innocent people. He deserved no mercy. He deserved to die. We are happy he was penalized for his sins, finally.

But when I learned that in his last words, he begged forgiveness from Allah, it somehow invoked my sympathy. I have always heard terrorists sticking to their cruel ways and stern, stubborn values till their last breath, believing in and fighting for some non-understandable cause. Ajmal Kasab realized that he did wrong.

In no time I thought, whenever “I” stand up for a cause, even a slightest oppositional response from anyone makes me nervous and insecure. I guess it is much difficult to leave the world, bearing so much hatred, opposition and abhorrence of millions of people.

Kasab was a young, decent-looking man in his early twenties. There was so much he could have given to his life and received from the world around him (wonder why he chose to embrace terrorism). Of course, Kasab was a mere weapon. We all somehow understand that the players of this terror game are others, who still stood hidden, watching all this silently from a bird’s view. People like Kasab are born and reared like cattle, brain washed in the name of religion. Why would someone, otherwise, want to die after killing strangers? 

I am in no way defending a terrorist like Kasab, but then, neither am I satisfied and contented thinking that by executing him, we have done anything worth a celebration.


Saturday, November 17, 2012

How to look stylish during monsoons?

Fashion experts believe that the arrival of monsoons comes with an obvious need to update the fashion wardrobe. One thing that you should never compromise on is the comfort. Loose or ill-fitted clothes make you feel messier and clumsy in an already moist and sticky weather. But super-skinny fits, too, make you restless and discomforted. Just try regular or straight-fitted bottoms and tops that ensure absolute freedom and easy body movement.

Needless to say that you need fabrics that help you dry quickly, in case you get wet. Polyester, polyester blends, nylon, rayon and other synthetic materials should be avoided as far as possible. Though these fabrics are highly durable and show wrinkle resistance, they are poor water absorbents. Cotton and linen, on the other hand, are extremely comfortable and lightweight, which makes them an excellent choice during the rainy season.

The next most important thing to pay attention to is the colour. Going with somber, dull hues is a big ‘no-no’ in monsoons. No matter how elegant you look in white, it too won’t help you. In fact no other colour gets so visibly dirty in monsoons as does white. All light coloured clothes acquire an undesirable, translucent feel when even slightly wet. So go for darker, brighter and more vibrant colours that bring out the jovial side of yours. Bold floral patterns, minimal detailing and little or no embellishments are the key to being on-trend during monsoons. Equally important is that you do not over load yourself with unnecessary accessories.


If your approach is ethnic, even the traditional suit-salwar style goes great but you should avoid taking the dupatta. Managing it with an umbrella can be as arduous as it sounds. But if you think that it is unavoidable, you can complete your look with scarfs and mufflers. Skirts, capris, cropped pants and shorts make for perfect options during monsoons, owing to their comparatively shorter hemlines. So don’t let the muck spoil the hem of your clothes and consequently, your mood!


For your feet, you should opt for something that helps them breath. Scientifically speaking, rains bring with them lots of fungal and bacterial infections. Damp, closed shoes can come out as a big disaster. Well, flip-flops are the simplest solution, if not the trendiest. Peep-toes and thong-style slippers seem to be a promising option. Give weightage to the soles of your footwear too as good grip is a must to minimize slips and falls.

we forgive

to find light that's lost, feel peace in our hearts, to believe in love, receive it from God, we forgive and we try to, to heal what hur...